1. Picking up the 'magnifying glass': Appreciating the strengths of others
Sometimes, we always crave the appreciation of others, but neglect to appreciate them. Actually, appreciation is mutual. People who always pick on others to stab will find it difficult for others to be calm with you; People who refuse to appreciate others also find it difficult to gain their recognition.
When you discover that others have shortcomings, it's best to use a magnifying glass to take a look at their strengths and find the shining points in them. When appreciation replaces dissatisfaction, acceptance replaces dislike, and surprise replaces resentment, you will find that your mood is also getting better and better.
A person who closely observes the shortcomings of others always views the world with their own prejudices and narrow mindedness; And a person who can appreciate the strengths of others can earn their respect with their own breadth of mind and magnanimity. Learning to appreciate the strengths of others is to treat ourselves well.
2. Make good use of the "microscope": pay attention to details when doing things
Difficult things in the world must be done easily, and great things in the world must be done in detail. People who can achieve things are not always smooth sailing, but they always use a microscope like meticulousness to delve into details and break them down one by one.
Gather small streams into the water, and form rivers and seas; A small step on the road leads to a thousand miles. Small things make big things happen, details determine success or failure. Many successes are actually accumulated from small things. People who achieve great things often take small things seriously; People who don't take small things seriously often fail to achieve great things.
Remember to prepare a "microscope" for yourself, see the details, do them well, and do every little thing with all your heart, in order to make a qualitative leap in the results.
3. Making Good Use of "Wide Angle Mirror": Expanding the Width of Life
In life, some people are trapped in their negative emotions because they do not know the true face of Mount Lushan, only because they are in this mountain.
At this point, it is advisable to use a "wide-angle mirror" to see the world, expand the width of life, experience more new things, and perceive the beauty around us that has been overlooked.
Reading an unread book, tasting a fresh dish, experiencing an unfamiliar sport, going to a park that you often pass by but never really appreciate... Give your life a fresh experience, expand the boundaries of life a bit, and embrace every day with an open heart. You will find that happiness is actually very simple.
4. Raising the "Telescope": Climbing High and Looking Far into the Future
Life is like climbing a mountain, standing tall is the only way to see far. When you are hesitating, it's best to hold up a "telescope". The pride of "looking at the small mountains" will let you know that the difficulties in front of you are temporary, and there is a better future waiting for you ahead.
If we only focus on the one acre and three quarters of land in front of us, how can we see the distant sea of stars? To see the long term, one must learn to use life's "telescope". To see the world and life through a "telescope" perspective, one can make decisions that take into account the overall situation and foresight.
It is difficult to take the long term when only considering the immediate gains and losses. Only those with foresight can see the future. When you feel lost, remember to use a "telescope" to look at the distance, and your path in life will definitely become wider and wider.
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